This is the first day of November, also known as All Saints’ Day. Many churches will observe this holy day next Sunday. St Luke UMC, however, chose to observe it on October 30. Prayers are said for those who have passed, especially those who have passed since this time last year. The congregation is encouraged to name their loved ones who have gone on and to come to the altar rail to light a candle for them.

At St. Luke, besides the candles on the altar rail, a special table was set up in the middle to hold larger candles for those who left us this year. A picture and/or a memento could be left for that special loved one. I think you know where I am going with this.
I knew I couldn’t sit through this service without crying the whole time, so I asked Lexi’s favorite person at St. Luke to light the candle when the time came. I am sure this was hard for David, too, but he did this for Lexi and me.
This is the page in the bulletin from where the names were read. I do believe that no matter what happens, there is a reason. Losing Lexi in early September is one of the hardest things I have ever endured. About one and a half years ago when I got my job at this wonderful church, I never expected anything like the support I have received since that time. I am blessed to be among these loving, caring people.
Mew mew mew Lady Amy!!! 😉
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Now I’ll do one of Lexi’s *blush*
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Yur so welcome sweet Lady Amy!!!
Mee meened to tell you yur berry purrty an wee luv yur profile foto!
~~head rubsss~~ Dhartha Henry~~
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xx
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I think she is, too.
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Yes, and thanks, Dhartha and LadyMum.
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Apparently the pastor recognized that, too. It makes my heart happy.
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That is a wonderful tradition. Lexi deserves to be remembered for all of her good deeds and her loving personality.
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Purrfect tribute to our deerest Lexi gurl……
~~head rubsss~~ Siddhartha Henry~~ an {{{hugs}} LadyMum
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We know you are right there with mom Lexi
Snorts,
Lily & Edward
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Thing of you and Lexi xx
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It is. I cry when I look at it. But what else is new.
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It sure is, Chris.
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A beautiful way to remember the loved ones gone before. The photo with the candles is so heartbreaking.
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That’s such a great way to honor Lexi’s memory.
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Yes, it is heartwarming.
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Yep, you are right.
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Yes, I am humbled.
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Always. Even though it is not always what we want at the time.
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It’s true. And Lexi usually was pleased with herself. 🙂
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I wish you could be to. Maybe I should repeat the mantra “I am a strong woman.” I have not felt that way lately. It has felt more like Lexi took my strength with her.
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Yes, probably all our lives. They made such huge impacts on our lives.
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It is good to know she is still remembered by her friends all over the world. Thank you Easy and family.
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What a lovely way to honor our girl. Lexi is remembered with so much love by so many.
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It’s a good way to remember those we lost this way… we remembered your Lexi while we watched the all hallows procession yesterday as they walked from church to cemetery ….
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You’ll keep on having “Lexi moments” just as we have “Kyla moments” after almost 2 years.
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I am so happy that you have found support and understanding within your sphere of friends and acquaintances. This has been such a hard road for you and your family. I wish so much I was closer and could talk face to face with you. Everything does seem to before a reason…time will let us know why.
Biggest of hugs,
Jean
PS You are a strong woman….
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Lexi is probably so pleased at the impact her short life made on earth, and you are obviously very proud of her. It is wonderful that everybody is so supportive, which not only says much about the congregation, but also so much about Lexi’s legacy. 🙂
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I love how God knows just what we need and then provides it.
Love and hugs, Margret
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And the circle is complete. Lexi was a blessing to the church and they in turn are there for you. What a sweet and loving tribute. ღ
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